Join Mary Murphy, celebrity judge on So You Think You Can Dance, at Center for Community Solutions 11th Annual Tea on the Town fundraiser on Friday, June 4, from 11am-1:30pm, at the San Diego Marriott Mission Valley. Murphy is an advocate for efforts to heal and prevent domestic violence, and she has shared her personal story on Ellen and Larry King Live, and in US Magazine. Chaired by Melanie Cruz, event proceeds will benefit Center for Community Solutions’ diverse domestic violence and sexual assault prevention and intervention programs and services. Tickets are $125 per person. (858/272-5777, www.ccssd.org)   JANE SHIOMI